A few years ago, my husband and I watched the oldest of our three daughters graduate and strike out into the world on her own. Looking back, I realize the letting go began years before her launch into adulthood. Those moments were sometimes humorous, sometimes endearing, and often heartbreaking, though they invariably provided opportunity for learning and joy – I believe both are always a choice.
Recently I’ve become curious about this pre-empty nest experience, a time which I have come to refer to as unnesting. So I decided to leverage my inquisitive nature, speaking experience and years of ghostwriting to explore this topic further. I began having conversations, and later formal interviews, with women I know, love and admire, asking each how she managed this exciting and challenging stage of life.
I am intensely interested in how women journey through life. At the moment I am particularly interested in how they navigate the years of unnesting. Those I have spoken with have graciously laid their hearts bare, sharing insights and wisdom that have both enriched and encouraged me. With their permission, I have begun to share their stories, and mine, here at Unnesting.
As one who strives to live surrendered to Jesus, I tend to view life through the lens of faith. I naturally connect what I am learning with what I believe. Even so, there is much here to encourage women of all faiths and all are welcome.
So, if you are a fellow unnester (Ya, I made that word up), or if you’re a planner like me and just want to be prepared because unnesting is in your future, welcome. My prayer is that your experience will be enriched and your heart encouraged.
With affection,
Tiffiney Cowan